communication

I really appreciate and admire that you could connect communication with learning capability by index. Could you refer me to such kind of articles?

I agree with you internet is a way to communicate and I have described in the first article the ways of communication in modern time. However, I have to clarify my "communication" here is only limited and defined as face-to-face communication.


I think atmosphere should be created actively but not to wait others to set a bridge to communicate.


Management team and common staff are all busy with work. The difference is manager is busy in work planning and assignment while common staff is in execution. According to varied characteristics, people are fond of varied jobs. Communication is not aiming at promotion but in better and smoothier life.

I am very glad that you agree with me.

Understanding have several steps:

1. Side-way messages: Before you have chances to talk or communicate to an individual, you may have heard of or collected side-way information or anecdotes about him/her. These related have mixed others' opinions and judgement but still could be taken as one of a resource to understand. And most of understaning we reach when we couldn't talk to a person face-to-face is from side-way messages analysis.

For example, we worship heros or celebrities but we may have no chance in our life to meet them, especially the ones who passed away before we come to life,hahah. Our feelings rise from understanding of their brightness of side-way messages.


2. Appearance judgement: for those who we are luck to meet ourselves, we will be prompt to an apperance judgement. Although our parents chattered a lot about not judging from appearance, we still keep on doing. And it should be considered as a very important factor when we try to find some one to talk in an unfamiliar party or crowd. You are easy to accpet this concept- he looks easy-going and considerate, maybe I could have a try to talk to him; he looks conservative and stubborn, I prefered talking to a monkey to chatting with him.

3. First impression: first impression here means the talking first impression. The topic or hobby your target prefers will have a crucial point on your impression. That is the factor to decide whether this will be the last talk you have with him for the rest of your life.

4. Further communication: When you have listened to his words or stories, you should start contribute to the communication. Otherwise, it will become his speech time or talk-show.

5. Full communication: this is the highest level you reach.

What I am talking here is targeting at the one who is timid to talk or actively to set a target to talk.

Next time I will try to explain more for the above 4 points. Please present your opinions and suggestions.

I am in beijing these weekends and just landed on shanghai. I am so unluck to have the worst pilots in the world. I am dizzy now and please forgive my wording or any unfit points.

Communication

I have been paying close attention to javaeye, .............

I know feelings have been forbidden topics here. I suggestion we talk about only communications in work.

how on earth to change English input method to Chinese?

I completely agree with you on this point.

"on these points",,,,,i think, maybe,,,so,,,dont 欺负 me,plz....

无论大小，螃蟹都是横着走的，如何才能让她直着走呢？？？