The Art of Attracting Women

    When I began researching the material for my book, The Art of Attracting Women,I started to realize that there are many unhappy people out there, especially women.Men, apparently, are pretty clueless when it comes to attracting females.

    One of the biggest problems  I faced when the book was released was the fact that guys became insecure when they heard the title. The last thing I need is a book like that! what kind of a weak as would need a book like that? I heard these comments from them over and over. Funny thing was, those were the guys who really did need the book I'm not a gigolo. I just recognized a need and decided to research and write about it. Bottom line, I've taken the things straight from women's brains and hearts, and assembled them in somewhat of an order.Allow me to share.Women dislike insecure men. Thus, if you want to attract a woman, don't do it by showing off your insecurity about anything. It's a waste of energy and will undoubtedly turn off whatever woman you happen to be around.

    How does your insecurity show through? If you make negative comments about other guys to try and bring them down a notch, you're insecure. If you talk about money all the time to impress a woman, you're definitely insecure.If you feel jealous or envious about anything in regards to men or women, your insecurity is shining through like a spotlight.

   To combat this, you need confidence.Confidence equals confort. Being confortable with who you are and what you do is the confident man's approach to life and the opposite sex. If you're confident, standing at ease, and smiling, woman notice, which leads us to the next point.Never try a line on a woman.They're cheesy,  women don't like them, and they are completely ineffective.Instead, make eye contact with a smile on your face,and if you feel that the moment is right, walk up and introduce yourself.

  Once the ice has been broken, keep the converstation jumping by asking questions.If you keep asking questions and really listen, you conversation will always go pretty well due to the fact that people love to talk about themselves.Remember this, because most women complain about men being awful listeners.If you can become a great listener, I'd say your chances with women will crease infinitely.

   Lastly, lose most or all of your cologne.People don't realize the fact that when applying a cologne? the olfactory sense shuts down. Often,people apply too much without realizing what they're doing, After the initial application, they can't smell it at all,so they keep pouring it on. Later that night, when they walk into a club,their cologne actually enters about 30 seconds before they do.Women only want to smell the stuff? according to my survery? when they get within close range.This means within two feet.Any more than that can create havorc21,

  Many guys needs to be reading this book.I appreciate the fact that you do.And I know there are a ton of women out there who do, too.